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寶貝十年的成長故事
Stories
of Our Treasure after 10 years
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憑自己一雙手賺了四千多元
Earning
more than HK$4,000 on my own
「是『需要』還是『想要』,要分清分楚。」
"We need to distinguish
between actual 'needs' and 'wants'. "
何秋螢
Audrey Ho
全港首位「格仔舖」包租婆
To be the first micro-shop landlord in Hong Kong
「我用手推車將廢紙由屋企拉到深水 ,最難受是途人的目光,更有人取笑我是「垃圾婆」…」
"I used
a trolley to bring a pile of paper from my home to Sham Shui Po. The
most unbearable part was enduring the stares from bystanders. Someone
even made fun of me by calling me' the garbage woman'. "
何千惠 Olivia
Ho
起跑線上 On the starting line
「我為人很現實,也活得很充實,會用最少開支爭取最多學習機會。」
"I am very realistic
and I live a meaningful life. I am determined to make use of every opportunity
to learn the most while spending the least. "
何詩琦
Elaine Ho
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媽媽的話:
「照顧她們三個,比照顧任何孩子都要困難,令我身心疲憊。當中有多辛苦,真是盡在不言中。香港社會很物質化,女兒們眼見人有我無,為人父母,說無壓力也是不可能。我有兩個願望:
希望三姊妹長大後能讀大學,雖然這願望很渺茫;希望她們長大後生生性,明白這些年來我對她們的很多要求都有原因,便是值得了,成功了。」
Words
from Mum:
"There
is nothing more difficult than taking care of three daughters: it makes
me exhausted. There are no words that can adequately describe how hard
it is. Hong Kong's society is materialistic. As a parent, I feel stressed
when I cannot offer things which my daughters see others have. I have
two wishes: first, I hope the three sisters have the chance to go to
university when they grow up, although I know their chances could be
slim. And second, I hope they become sensible people. If, one day, they
truly understand my reasons for being strict with them in the past,
then my hard work and sacrifice will be worth it."
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| 衝上雲霄
Triumph in the sky
「只要你肯努力嘗試,在這奇妙的世界,神奇的事總等著你去迎接。」
"As
long as you persevere, miracles are waiting to happen in this wonderful
world."
李麗華 Audrey
Lee
家�堣@直很窮,希望升讀大學,脫離貧窮。殊不知一上學便碰釘,同學對我這新移民不太友善。好不容易考上第一組別的中學,卻原來做功課要用電腦,為省錢買電腦做功課,我和媽媽以麵包代餐,每月供款,用了差不多一整年的時間才完成供款。
過去一年,全職加上兼職,每日拼命工作14小時,終於儲夠了學費,參加加拿大魁北克的飛機師訓練。我知道這不是一件容易的事,但我已下定決心全力以赴。如果能考獲飛機師牌,不但可以實現我對爸爸的承諾、兒時遨遊天際的夢想,還可讓我和媽媽快些脫貧,有能力幫助他人,回饋社會!
My family
have been very poor. I studied hard and was very obedient, with the
hope of getting into university to raise ourselves out of poverty. However,
I faced many unexpected challenges once school started - my schoolmates
were not friendly to new immigrants like me. With lots of hard work,
I finally got into a band one secondary school, but then I found out
I needed a computer to do homework. Mum and I came up with a 'plan',
which was to have bread for most of our meals and buy the computer through
monthly instalments.
I work 14
hours every day at both full-time and part-time jobs, saving until I
finally have enough money to enrol in a cadet training programme in
Quebec, Canada. I know this is not easy, but I am determined to give
it my best. If I ultimately qualify as a pilot, not only will I have
honoured my promise to Dad by realising my childhood dream of flying,
but I will also be able to lift our family out of poverty and contribute
to the community by helping others!
媽媽的話:
「麗華自小就是一個特別獨立的孩子,很有主見和毅力,我提她要好好讀書,她說:『媽媽,讀書是我自己應該做好的事情,我讀不好,你也不能替我讀。』結果她的學業成績一直以來都很好,這孩子從來不用我操心。」
Words
from Mum:
"Audrey
has been an independent and strong-willed child from a very young age.
I still remember her reply when I told her to be good at school. She
said, "Mum, schoolwork is my responsibility, I must learn the material
and no one can do it for me." Her determination was reflected in
her grades, and I never had to worry about her."
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| 移民 Immigration
「我在香港出生,但因為血統關係,樣子一看便看得出是尼泊爾人,在香港被當為移民,不是香港人。」
"I was
born in Hong Kong. However, people can easily tell that I'm Nepalese,
so I'm treated as an immigrant instead of as a Hong Konger."
Bhowan
Tamang
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爸爸的話:
「Bhowan是我家引以為傲的孩子,他很懂事。我們努力工作,他努力讀書,一個人悶在家,他會按照指示行事,一個人玩牌、下棋,讓我們安心工作。」
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from Dad:
"I am
proud of my son. He is very considerate. My wife and I have to work,
so Bhowan often stays alone at home. He follows our instructions and
studies hard. He plays card games and board games when at home, which
allows us to focus on work without any worries."
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| 吃即食麵還是吃飯?
Instant noodles or rice?
「雖然學校離家有點遠,但可省則省,早些起床,上學下課走路各半小時,一星期便可省下數十元。」
"Although
my home is far away from school, I wake up earlier to walk to school
and then walk home again which takes around 30 minutes each way. By
doing so, I can save some money every week. "
黃嘉儀
Kelly Wong
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媽媽的話:
「看著嘉儀不斷長大,我也十分開心。小時候她有些小姐脾氣,這點很像她爸爸,現在唸中學了,待人處事也較成熟了。為著幫補生計,我天天到快餐店上班賺錢,遺憾沒有太多時間與她一起;每星期六、日,嘉儀獨個兒在我工作的快餐店中坐著,一坐便是數小時,乖乖的溫習功課等我下班。我沒有什麼要求,只寄望她將來能成才,身體健健康康就好了。」
Words
from Mum:
"Watching
Kelly grow up every day is a great delight. When she was young, she
was a bit moody just like her dad, but now, as a secondary school student,
she's becoming more mature in dealing with everything. In order to support
the family, I work every day at a fast-food shop and have little time
to spend with Kelly, which makes me feel sad. On weekends, she comes
to the fast-food shop where I work. She just sits there and studies
by herself for hours, waiting for me so that we can go home together.
I have nothing to ask, except to hope that she remains healthy and becomes
a valuable person in the future."
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| 無驚無險 順其自然 Let
nature run its course
「總之順其自然吧,儘力而為,未來是未知數,總有無限可能!
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"The future is unknown and all I need to do is work hard and let
nature run its course. Anything is possible!"
何錦彬 Ho
Kam-pan
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媽媽的話:
「從小到大,錦彬都很生性,讀書日常起居飲食等自己都能好好安排。我在餐廳中工作,工作時間很長,因此與他相處時間不多,但也爭取晚上一起共聚晚飯的時光,錦彬也會主動分享生活點滴。現在錦彬爸爸已離開了兩年,只剩下我倆相依為命。寄望他不要學壞,日後找到自己喜歡的工作便好了。」
Words
from Mum:
"Kam-pan
has been a very obedient and independent child since he was young. He
can manage every part of his life, from his studies to his daily routines.
Since I work long hours at a restaurant, we don't spend much time together.
Yet, I always try my best to get home to have dinner with him, and he
always eagerly shares his life with me. Kam-pan's father passed away
over two years ago. My only wish is that Kam-pan is not led astray.
That in the future he will be able to find a job that he likes."
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| 畫夢
Painting my dream
「人總有夢想,夢想是生活的動力和希望,不要因為現實而放棄夢想!」
"Everyone
has dreams and aspirations. Dreams can motivate people to live their
lives with hope and inspiration. I will not give up on my dreams although
they may be tough to achieve."
王文禮 Wong
Man-lai
「十樓,有,十一樓,無……,十歲的時候,每日早晚的工作就是上落十五層樓梯搜尋後樓梯棄置的紙皮報紙,每星期與媽媽扎一大扎去賣,雖然賣不了多少錢,但感覺還是很滿足,因為可以為家庭做一些事。那時候,爸爸患腎病,媽媽每天24小時照顧他,很辛苦、很憔悴,所以我自告奮勇,每晚12時當更為爸爸換洗腎水,讓媽媽可以早些休息。日子過得不容易,但在忙碌中不知不覺過去了,爸爸也走了好幾年。
"10th
floor, found some! …11th floor, none today…"
When I was
10, my daily chores included going up and down 15 floors looking for
discarded newspapers and cardboard. Mum and I would then carry the large
bundle of papers to sell every week. We didn't earn much, but it always
gave me a great sense of satisfaction as I felt I was contributing to
my family. At that time, Dad was diagnosed with kidney failure, so taking
care of him became Mum's full-time job. Mum was exhausted and under
great stress. To allow her more time to rest, I volunteered to share
some of the responsibilities and took the midnight shift to handle Dad's
dialysis. Life was tough, but I was preoccupied with many chores and
time just passed by in the blink of an eye. Dad passed away several
years ago.
媽媽的話:
「我很注重兒子的品德教育,這麼多年來,他的品行還好,他跟義工出去玩,義工都會讚他懂照顧他人、熱心和善良。這孩子唯一讓我憂心的是他的學業,雖然他不能升讀大學,但想不到他小時候的畫畫興趣居然成了今日的工作!他現在很自覺上班後晚上去進修,讓我感到安慰。
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Words
from Mum:
"Teaching
my son to have a moral responsibility has always been important to me
and I am glad my son now has a good moral character. In the past, my
only worry about him was his studies. Although he didn't get into university,
he put my mind at ease by turning his interest in drawing into a career.
He even enrolled himself into night school after work to keep improving
himself."
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| 灌籃高手
Slam dunk expert
「最怕是吃藥,四年級開始天天都要吃,現在每天要吃七顆藥,我不想吃,但老師和媽媽說不可以。」
"What
I also hate is taking medicine. I have taken medicine every day since
Primary Four. Now I have to take seven pills every day. I don't want
to take them, but my mum and teachers insist that I must."
李金瑞 Lee
Kam-shui
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媽媽的話:
「照顧金仔比照顧任何小朋友都困難。小二那年,導師說他上課特別不專心,上課時把白白的牆壁踢得變灰色;聽學校建議帶他做評估,後來又輪候青少年精神科,足足等了兩年多才接受評估和治療,錯過了治療黃金期。醫生說金仔患有過度活躍、讀寫障礙、專注力不足,學業很難追得上要求,很難教……無論多辛苦、多困難,都要把他養大。」
Words
from Mum:
"Taking
care of Kam Chai (Kam-shui's nickname) is harder than taking care of
other children. His father passed away when he was one year old. When
he was in Primary Two, the teacher said that he was unusually inattentive
during class. He used to kick the classroom wall, turning it from white
to grey. I took a social worker's advice and arranged for him to be
assessed. Kam Chai was put on the waiting list for adolescent psychiatric
services. It was more than two years before he was able to be assessed
at the centre and receive treatment. This meant that he started treatment
late, missing the best window for timely intervention. The doctor said
Kam Chai has attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and dyslexia.
He has difficulties with his studies and it is difficult to teach him
... No matter how tiring and difficult it gets, I will raise him."
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| IT
路 The road to IT
「我想用學會的科技知識幫助社會。只要動動腦筋,就能利用科技加強人與人之間的聯繫,便利人的生活。」
"I want
to apply my IT knowledge to help society. Just think about it, technology
can strengthen connections between people and make people's lives more
convenient. "
林銘峰
Alan Lam
以前課後幫媽媽在舊樓倒垃圾、洗樓梯,很辛苦;現在已投身社會工作,家中經濟得以改善,但開支也大了,每花一分一毫也審慎決定。現在要省錢努力交學費、償還副學士課程貸款、給爸媽生活費、還有自己上班開支……打算踏單車上下班,節省交通費。
今年嘗試自投履歷應徵,努力一個多月後成功獲取錄,在科學園擔任軟件開發員。不用靠別人介紹,自己爭取回來,很有滿足感。我想用學會的科技知識幫助社會。最近在公司研發新的應用程式,讓我這些「懶人」也可貢獻大眾。只要動動腦筋,就能利用科技加強人與人之間的聯繫,便利人的生活。
I used to
help my mum clear the trash and wash the stairs in old buildings after
school. It was very tough work. My family's financial situation has
improved since I started working. But my spending has also increased.
I have to be very prudent with my spending. I am saving money to settle
my current school fees, repay my student loan from the previous associate
degree programme and support my parents' living expenses, as well as
cover my daily spending. I also plan to save on transportation costs
by riding a bicycle to work.
This year,
I successfully found a job after applying for the position on my own.
I am now working as a software developer at the Science Park. I am very
happy and proud that I landed this job using my own abilities and did
not need to rely on referrals. I want to apply my IT knowledge to help
society. In fact, my company is currently developing a new software
application to find ways for people to contribute to society with very
little effort. Just think about it - technology can strengthen connections
between people and make people's lives more convenient, especially for
'lazy' people like me.
媽媽的話:
「十年前峰仔剛讀中學,當時家境生活很困難,他爸爸因病失業,經社工介紹下我找到清潔大廈的工作;他課後也要負責打掃大廈樓梯及傾倒垃圾,學習時間也少了,我們也很無奈……如今他已長大成人、工餘後仍繼續進修,家中經濟亦稍有改善。他希望在科技事業有發展,做父母的也很欣慰,希望他可腳踏實地,訂立遠大目標,同時逐步從小目標中實現和學習,我們便心滿意足了。」
Words
from Mum:
"Ten
years ago when Alan started secondary school, our family went through
hard times. His dad lost his job due to illness, so I had to work. With
the help of a social worker, I found work as a building cleaner. Alan
also had to help clean the staircase and clear the rubbish bins after
school, and this unfortunately took time from his studies, which we
did not want. Now, as an adult, he is doing further studies while working.
Our family's financial situation has improved and he now wants to develop
his career in technology. As parents, we are gratified by his ambition.
We expect nothing else from him provided he sets his goals and works
hard to realise his short-term goals step by step."
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「少數族裔要在香港生存,一定要學好中文。」
"The
ethnic minorities in Hong Kong must learn Chinese in order to survive."
Khem Limbu
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爸爸的話:
「我們一家人這麼辛苦工作,就是為了給Khem一個好的成長環境,在香港生活不容易,但只要肯努力,總會有機會出頭,所以我常教導兒子要努力向上。但我覺得他還不夠努力,我希望他勤力多一些,有時間要多做義工,幫助社會、增加見識。」
Words
from Dad:
"Our
family works very hard to provide a good environment for Khem to grow
up in. Life in Hong Kong isn't easy, but as long as you work hard, there
are always opportunities here. And I try to teach him that. However,
I don't think he's quite there yet and I wish he would try harder. I
encourage him to participate in more volunteer work in his free time,
help the community and broaden his views."
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| 城南舊事
My memories of old Beijing
「很想承傳她們的愛,為其他孩子燃點希望,守衛孩子們純真地成長。」
"I really
want to pass on their love, to ignite the hope for other children and
cultivate an environment where children can grow up with innocence."
楊曉晶 Janet
Yeung
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媽媽的話:
「我們的日子過得很艱苦,連給女兒喝奶粉的錢也沒有。幸好女兒很懂事,不會嚷著要甚麼,甚麼也沒有所謂,自小甚麼都不用操心。希望在她的努力下,可以考到大學。我們能捱過這些崎嶇的日子,感恩社工做我們窮人的後盾,我常吩咐女兒要向社工多學習,幫助他人。
Words
from Mum:
"Once,
we led a very difficult life - I could not even afford to buy milk powder
for my daughter. But, fortunately, she is very sensible, never asks
for anything, and I do not need to worry too much about her. I hope
that with her hard work she can get into university. I am very grateful
for the support from social workers, which helped us survive during
the rough times. I often tell my daughter to learn from the social workers
and to help other people."
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| 不一樣的童年
A different childhood
「回望過去,我的童年與別人不同沒有什麼不好,反正都捱過了,說不好也改變不了。」
"Looking
back, it's not a bad thing that I have had a different childhood from
others. After all, I have lived through all these experiences, and things
would not change even if I had regrets."
藍美玲 Crocus
Lan
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媽媽的話:
「美玲生性懂事,現在長大會照顧自己,自動自覺功課溫習又一腳踢,完全不用我操心,學業成績還不錯。我倆生活簡單,知曉平淡是福,有工作、可回家一起吃頓飯已很滿足,沒有太大要求。阿女很懂事,『需要』與『想要』分得清楚。希望她能好好用功讀書,考入大學,做個有用的人。」
Words
from Mum:
"Crocus
has always taken care of herself since she was young, and I never needed
to worry about her studies as she always takes the initiative to do
her homework and achieves quite good exam results. We are happy that
our lives are simple; having a job and being able to enjoy meals at
home are blessings enough for us. Crocus is always well behaved. She
is very clear about what things are 'necessary' and those that are 'wanted'.
I hope she will continue to be hard-working in her studies, go to university
and be a valuable person."
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| 拉糖 Sugar
art
「人生就像拉糖,需要捱得高溫的苦,經過磨練和塑造,才可以達至最美妙的境界。」
"Life
is like making sugar art; you have to be able to withstand the heat
and work hard before you can enjoy the final product."
朱疊鴻 Tip-Hung
Chu
讀書的時候,一家四口租住三十呎的板間房,沒有窗、沒有書桌,遑論做功課,呼吸的空間也缺乏,天天泡網吧,一兩塊錢就有交易。其實我不只是打機,也會上網瀏覽不同的資訊,也由此啟迪日後的發展。中四的時候,選擇早些出社會工作。
「讀大學不是唯一的出路,大學生也有掃街的。在網吧時,認識一位香港大學畢業的朋友,一直努力找工作,但找不到,最後找了一份掃街的工作,讓我反省大學學歷原來不一定有助生活。學好一門技能,一樣可以在社會生存。當年的學業成績實在很差,所以毅然決定放下學業,向另一方向出發,學做甜品師傅。
I grew up
in a 30-square foot cubicle flat with my family of four. It had no windows,
nor a writing desk. There was barely enough room to breath, let alone
do homework. That's why I always went to cyber caf?s. It only cost a
few dollars anyway. I read many articles and came across lots of information
and stories online, from which I gained inspiration and insight for
my future.
Having a
university degree does not guarantee success. Some university graduates
are street sweepers. I once met a graduate from the University of Hong
Kong in a cyber cafer. He tried very hard to find a job after he graduated,
but still ended up as a street sweeper. This made me think twice about
the value of a university degree. I believe that as long as I have skills,
I can still survive in this society. As my academic results were really
poor, I decided to quit school and started working towards becoming
a confectioner.
爸爸的話:
「他有自己的主見,我給他自由發展,最重要肯捱。他常常三更半夜才回家,很難才見到他,大家都忙,希望他做到想做的。」
Words
from Dad:
He has his
own beliefs on how to live his life, and I let him do what he wants.
The most important thing is that he doesn't give up when difficulties
arise. He always comes home late, and I rarely see him. Everybody is
busy. I truly wish he achieves what he sets out to do.
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幸運兒
I am a lucky person
「為了省錢,我和弟弟天天以SoCO桂林街中心為家。」
"In
order to save money, my brother and I did everything at SoCO's Centre
on Kweilin Street."
陳允玲 Chan
Wan-ling
苦力 A
life of toil
「同一天空,何以有此天淵之別?」
"I couldn't
help but wonder why there is such a big difference even though we all
live under the same sky."
陳允沖 Chan
Wan-chung
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媽媽的話:
「弟弟要我操心多些,他中四就輟學,沒有一份工長做,真的很讓我擔心。幸好,他肯不斷嘗試,不做雙失青年。希望他有一份穩定工作。女兒仍在唸大學,希望他倆姐弟一起努力,日後我不用捱得這麼辛苦。
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Words
from Mum:
"Wan-chung
worries me more than his sister does - he quit school after Form 4,
and since then, still hasn't been able to find a permanent job. His
heart is in the right place and he keeps applying himself to whatever
work he can find, but I really hope he can find something more stable.
Wan-ling (Wan-chung's sister) is currently studying at university. I
hope both can make it and lessen my worries in the future."
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